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Discernment: To Go or Stay
1. Two Personalities/Biases I've seen:
- Wait, don't act until the Lord tells you what to do.
- Move forward and the Lord will stop you if you go in the wrong direction.
- "Wait on the Lord. Be strong and let your heart take courage. Wait, I say, on the Lord." Ps 27:14
- "You will hear a voice behind you when you turn to the right or the left" (Isa 30:21)
- I had an impression of a change coming. It was both a push and a pull.
- Outside factors included an empty nest, a sense that I was not as aligned with the direction of my situation as I used to be.
- Inside was a sense that I either needed to return to teaching or move into more advanced leadership.
- Doors opened.
- There were a striking number of benefits to walking through the door.
- I had an unusual peace about it.
- Sometimes we have to wait because there is nothing we can do but pray. (Of course we should always be praying. We should always sit with a choice in silence before the Lord.)
- Sometimes God wants us to wait on him when we could act but it is not his will.
- Sometimes God makes it clear what we are to do and when we are to do it.
- Sometimes we need to step out in faith without knowing for sure where we are going.
- Scripture - "Impressions from above are always in harmony with the teachings of the Word."
- conscience - Does the impression cohere with our core Christian values (love God, love neighbor)? (I have modified Knapp here)
- providence - "If a leading is of God, the way will always open for it."
- reason - God's leading usually makes sense.
- Your situation can get rough (a push).
- Your situation can change in a way that requires choices.
- A door can open and a new possibility present itself (a pull).
- There's a time to stick it out. There is a time to shake the dust off your feet.
- There can also be a time when you are ready to continue, but your influence is spent. You may want to stay but it would benefit the situation for someone else to take over.
- There's a time to step out in faith. There's a time to wait for a door to open.
- A "holy discontent" (but beware a personality always looking for greener grass)
- A person can have a sense of release or a sense of ongoing burden.
- God often gives us choices, gives us a say in what to choose. There isn't always just one will of God.
- God interacts with our choices. He sometimes "changes his mind about judgment" (Jonah). He gives Hezekiah an extra 15 years. Sometimes he turns toward the negative (Saul, destruction of Jerusalem).
- An impression - peace? discontent? excitement? a possible word from the Lord?
- What does Scripture and my conscience say?
- What doors are open and closed?
- What are the pros and cons (reason)? Does it make sense?
- What do others say, whose wisdom I recognize? Don't ignore the prophets you don't like!
- Listen to the voice behind you.
Lord, grant me the peace to wait on you when I cannot or should not act…
Lord, grant me the courage to act when it is time, even if I am uncertain of the direction…
Lord, grant me the wisdom to know the difference!
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